Won Without Words
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Shari Popejoy

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Celebrate The Moments of CHRISTmas

Whatever your simply sensational moments may be, I hope you find time for it today! It’s really important to do that — even if you have to leave some other monstrously and seemingly important thing undone. It might be time to prioritize, and special moments should never be crossed off the list!

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Christmas Gift Certificates for Your Husband

Why don’t you give him something that is incredibly valuable and rare? Give him a gift that includes BOTH treasures: the things he never asks for but always wants, and the things he always asks for and never gets enough!

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Immanuel, A Christmas Presence

Have you ever experienced Immanuel? Here’s how. Close your eyes . Take a deep breath. Let it out, and with the emptying of that breath, empty yourself of self — thoughts of self, of the present, of now. And then — instead of being in the present — be in the PRESENCE.

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Mary Had a Little Lamb

While her baby was safe in her arms, she heard in her heart the cries of Rachael, weeping for her sons, but refusing to be comforted.

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Shepherd Boy

How a broken nativity figurine helped me teach my son the difference between like and love, and helped me to distinguish the ‘one thing needful’


100 Days To My Anniversary 2012

What Do You Really Want?

Posted  March 15, 2012  by  Shari Popejoy

Today’s challenge: Consider this question just before the first shot is fired: What do I really want? Take a few moments before engaging in battle to at least sit down and ask yourself the question.

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My Mr. Mom

Posted  April 13, 2015  by  Cheryl Oberdieck

My husband has been working from home a lot lately and taking exceptionally good care of me. I must say that even when I am not under the influence of mind-altering pharmaceuticals, I am still very impressed.

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Day 10: Do Not Defraud One Another

Posted  April 2, 2013  by  Shari Popejoy

It is selfish to withhold something from your partner that you know he enjoys, that only you can provide (unless you have both agreed to some fervent prayer and fasting).

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Proverbs 31 for the Average Woman

P31 Post 31: Thy Breasts Shall Be As Clusters Of The Vine

Posted  August 3, 2011  by  Shari Popejoy

You, O lovely woman, have a great capacity to refresh your husband with your love, your lush and fulfilling embrace, your tender response to the affection and adoration and attraction of your husband to you. . . and your vineyard.

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Simplifying CHRISTmas

Posted  December 1, 2011  by  Shari Popejoy

It’s a wonderful life — and it’s your life. Write down a perfect Christmas season of celebration, and then make it come to pass. No one is holding you hostage! Do only what will bring you, or others, joy this Christmas. I give you permission. Try it this year.

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Cheryl writes at blog.wonwithoutwords.com

She’s Not Your Typical Pastor’s Wife

Posted  December 2, 2014  by  Shari Popejoy

Cheryl is one of the most beautiful women I know, and the longer I know her, the more her beauty escapes her heart and shines on her face and her personality.

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Money Money Money Money Monday!

Posted  July 25, 2011  by  Shari Popejoy

You’ve heard it said that it takes money to make money, and that is very true. It is like priming the pump. You have to have something to invest before you get a return! Here’s another truth: It takes money to SAVE money!

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Self Inflicted Wounds

Posted  May 2, 2012  by  Shari Popejoy

There is nothing more painful than being persistently punished, berated and betrayed, or unjustly accused — by one who is commanded (and who committed) to love and cherish you. If that describes your husband, you must realize that he is in pain, and is attempting to release his own pain, as he takes it out on you, in self-destructive abuses against his own flesh — you, his precious other self.*

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Published Books and Book Reviews

Happy Father’s Day Dad!

Posted  June 19, 2011  by  Shari Popejoy

Volume V of the Livingstone Library, Wrestling Shadows will be released soon.

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Proverbs 31 for the Average Woman

P31 #36 Get To Bed!

Posted  August 17, 2011  by  Shari Popejoy

God designed your body for rest. He will enable you to accomplish the things that are really important, and He will help you to decide what can be laid aside, given up and sacrificed, in order to gain a better and more needful thing.

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