Won Without Words
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Shari Popejoy

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Celebrate The Moments of CHRISTmas

Whatever your simply sensational moments may be, I hope you find time for it today! It’s really important to do that — even if you have to leave some other monstrously and seemingly important thing undone. It might be time to prioritize, and special moments should never be crossed off the list!

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Christmas Gift Certificates for Your Husband

Why don’t you give him something that is incredibly valuable and rare? Give him a gift that includes BOTH treasures: the things he never asks for but always wants, and the things he always asks for and never gets enough!

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Immanuel, A Christmas Presence

Have you ever experienced Immanuel? Here’s how. Close your eyes . Take a deep breath. Let it out, and with the emptying of that breath, empty yourself of self — thoughts of self, of the present, of now. And then — instead of being in the present — be in the PRESENCE.

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Mary Had a Little Lamb

While her baby was safe in her arms, she heard in her heart the cries of Rachael, weeping for her sons, but refusing to be comforted.

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Shepherd Boy

How a broken nativity figurine helped me teach my son the difference between like and love, and helped me to distinguish the ‘one thing needful’


Sex begins in the mind; Think good thoughts

Day 13: Intimacy Begins In The Mind

Posted  April 5, 2013  by  Shari Popejoy

The thoughts you think today will determine the outcome of intimacy tonight.

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What IF I Don’t Respect My Husband?

Posted  July 26, 2012  by  Shari Popejoy

So, if you’re having trouble respecting certain qualities in your husband, just give him the general respect you’d extend to a stranger. Build on that. Don’t make it so personal. Respect is something we award, a medal of honor that we extend to our fellow man in recognition of their role and position in our lives — not necessarily in relation to their worth or their achievements, but simply a common courtesy.

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Respect is like calling help to a fireman.

Day 6: Why Is Respect So Important To a Man?

Posted  March 26, 2013  by  Shari Popejoy

Somehow knowing that a woman will be pleased motivates a man to do whatever he has to do to get the response from her.

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Proverbs 31 for the Average Woman

P31 Post 11: Failure – A Worthy Opponent

Posted  June 27, 2011  by  Shari Popejoy

If you intend to be a Proverbs 31 Woman, then you must realize that failure is not worth fearing – invite it into the ring, pull on your gloves, and give it a few swings. You might take a hit or two, but I think you will take this round, and maybe even win the match!

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50 Days of Encouragement

Countdown #15; Fickle Feelings

Posted  December 20, 2011  by  Shari Popejoy

Don’t turn into a twister of a tornado when you’re in a mood! Protect your loved ones from your stormy weather. The skies will clear up soon! And if we can use a soft answer in the midst of tension, then the warm fuzzy feelings come back sooner!

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100 Days To My Anniversary 2012

Love The Completion Of The Work In Progress

Posted  May 14, 2012  by  Shari Popejoy

Do not allow your efforts to become futile by being distracted by the truth of today. See things through faith as they will become, and love in advance the completion and not the work in progress.

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Love is a language that doesn't need words; won without words.

Day 8: How Can I Get My Husband To Listen To Me?

Posted  March 28, 2013  by  Shari Popejoy

Use your lips to whisper wordless messages of longing and hopes and fears, and sorrows over the failures, with commitments to do better.

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Saturday Grapevine

Saturday Grapevine: Where Has All The Music Gone?

Posted  November 5, 2011  by  Shari Popejoy

All we really have to do is communicate in a way that they understand that we need their help in a certain area. And it is important to express your true needs. He really wants to meet your needs if he can. . . if he understands you. . .

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Dear Husband

Dear Husband I Love You Because

Posted  January 8, 2015  by  Shari Popejoy

Why did you fall in love with him, and why do you continue to fall in love with him over and over again? Have you told him that recently?

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100 Days To My Anniversary 2012

Follow Your Heart

Posted  April 12, 2012  by  Shari Popejoy

Even though we can all agree that a diet consisting solely of chocolate cake is not sublime in the end. . . we don’t have the wisdom or experience to know everything. . .about marriage and our lives. . . or even about the plans and purposes the God has in mind for us and for our family — we must rely on the wisdom of God

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