So. . . my general rule is that if my husband is particularly annoying, rather than immediately jumping to the conclusion that he is just purposely trying to annoy me, so that I might get irritable and cranky, and react in a way that could possibly cause a conflict, that might blow up into an argument, that could potentially turn into days of fighting. . . perhaps I should consider that I am receiving the signals incorrectly.
The worst thing you can do when your husband is ignoring you, is to assume that it’s about you, and then to precipitate an argument — just to get his attention — so that he’s not ignoring you anymore! (There are a few things worse than being ignored!)
Hope you join me for the summer What If series. I’ll be asking a number of questions, and answering them with encouragement for wives.
The best way to get your husband to pray with you — is to pray for him — effectually and fervently! (James 5:16)
Since attraction, like magnetism, is best from a small distance, the best cure for loss of attraction is to just turn around, get closer, and wait! Hang in there. Honor your vows. Step back a little and let the power of magnetism begin to attract you to your husband again.
Share with your husband the areas where God has shown you growth is needed in your life, and ask for his prayer and support in overcoming your sinful nature.
Happy Anniversary to me!!
Colliding energies, forceful actions and equally powerful reactions, can become a swirling, powerful, sucking vortex of the power of circular revolution, dragging you into a whirlpool of eddying unending emotional turmoil. Avoid the vortex!