So. . . my general rule is that if my husband is particularly annoying, rather than immediately jumping to the conclusion that he is just purposely trying to annoy me, so that I might get irritable and cranky, and react in a way that could possibly cause a conflict, that might blow up into an argument, that could potentially turn into days of fighting. . . perhaps I should consider that I am receiving the signals incorrectly.
The worst thing you can do when your husband is ignoring you, is to assume that it’s about you, and then to precipitate an argument — just to get his attention — so that he’s not ignoring you anymore! (There are a few things worse than being ignored!)
Since attraction, like magnetism, is best from a small distance, the best cure for loss of attraction is to just turn around, get closer, and wait! Hang in there. Honor your vows. Step back a little and let the power of magnetism begin to attract you to your husband again.
Colliding energies, forceful actions and equally powerful reactions, can become a swirling, powerful, sucking vortex of the power of circular revolution, dragging you into a whirlpool of eddying unending emotional turmoil. Avoid the vortex!