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Gift Ideas For the Hard to Buy For Husband

Need some great gift ideas for your hard-to-buy-for husband?

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Making CHRISTmas Meaningful

Some of my favorite CHRISTmas posts!

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Free Christmas Download from The Livingstone Library

Join the Livingstones for a CHRISTmas mystery that involves ancient scrolls, prophecies, and echoing whispers in the old abbey.

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How To Orchestrate CHRISTmas

Wave your baton and weave a tapestry of warmth and welcome in your home. Create soothing sounds of a symphony of celebration. Wrap your world in harmonious tones of a happy home. Forget the clamor, discord and dissonant sounds that compete for your attention, and choose a song that lifts you all from the humdrum and inharmonious.

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Simplifying CHRISTmas

It’s a wonderful life — and it’s your life. Write down a perfect Christmas season of celebration, and then make it come to pass. No one is holding you hostage! Do only what will bring you, or others, joy this Christmas. I give you permission. Try it this year.



How Polite Should I Be to My Husband?

Posted  December 3, 2014  by  Denise Barkdoll

When it comes to certain acts of politeness – deference, willingness to yield, putting forth my best side, choosing my words thoughtfully – am I more careful with others than I am with the one whom my soul loves?

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Hint to the Riddle Answer

Posted  February 18, 2011  by  Shari Popejoy

What is impossible to buy, can be had in exchange for nothing, and costs you everything?

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Feet First: Just Be The Switch For Transformation On The Long Way Around

Posted  September 27, 2011  by  Shari Popejoy

My sweet and adoring husband surprised me by registering me for the Designed For Life conference, and I spent several days feasting on life-giving words, imbibing heart-changing worship, and enjoying the delicious dessert of communing with sweet sisters in Christ. Oh, and best of all, I got to stay with my lovely daughter in her apartment (that sounds too strange since just weeks ago, she was still my girl at home — but it was oh, so fun!!!) Thank you Marc. You’ll never know the good it did me to get away. . . and to come home to a quiet house. . . for a couple hours. . . and then to a night of ‘home alone’ with you!! Love, love, love you!

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100 Days To My Anniversary 2012

Stop Eating That Elephant!

Posted  May 31, 2012  by  Shari Popejoy

It’s time to stop consuming the dust of the decaying elephant of corpulent criticism, bloated belligerence, contumacious contempt, a corpse of curse-encrusted cancer. . . a miserable maggoty meal.

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Crying Over Spilled Milk

Posted  January 10, 2012  by  Shari Popejoy

If you’ve yelled at your children lately, don’t take it too hard. It happens, just like spilled milk — that unexpected capsizing, that gush of guilt, that dribbling of destructive words, rivulets of rage. You’ll mature just like your children will.

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Proverbs 31 for the Average Woman

P31 Post 29: The Taste Of Profit — It Is Good!

Posted  August 2, 2011  by  Shari Popejoy

There is nothing wrong with expecting (and enjoying) a profit. A laborer would be foolish to work just to get by. The laborer is worthy of his hire, and the Proverbs 31 Woman not only makes a profit, but enjoys the taste of her profit!

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100 Days to My Anniversary

Tip #99 How To Avoid Stormy Weather

Posted  May 31, 2011  by  Shari Popejoy

Well, suffice it to say that when your husband’s hostile attitude meets your cold front. . . there is potential for some stormy weather!

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Pain: A Pit Stop On The Road Of Love

Posted  May 26, 2012  by  Shari Popejoy

Pain is one way of knowing you are in love. Not a self-destructive form of love of pain, that’s sick, but a realistic acknowledgment of the risks and an intellectual choice to assume the risk for the resultant rewards.

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Taxing My Patience

Posted  October 13, 2011  by  Shari Popejoy

Even after my pre-occupation with profit and loss, and my balancing act with balance sheets, with a resulting depreciation of my patience lately — he has a soft answer! It reminds me of how sweet and supportive he has always been to me through all my labors!!

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The Work of Marriage — It Was Very Good

Posted  February 21, 2011  by  Shari Popejoy

I know the pain of a love that has died into a smoldering coal. . . and I know the joy of that love being rekindled and bursting into a passionate flame of love again – a stronger, more mature, more perfect, more intimate love.

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