Romance is the fragrance of pot roast that signals you that you’re hungry. Intimacy is sitting down at the table and feasting!
Oh yes, get away to your vineyard, reserve it for a private party, for your very own needs, a selfishly sublime moment where your desires are utmost, and you set the table with your favorite delicacies, and invite your lover to partake — on your terms!
It’s not that he’s stupid. . . he’s just different. . . and the years have changed both of you. . . and you might need to develop new strategies to connect with each other and express your love to each other.